Intruder

I was touched by a story I was told over the weekend. She had planned the ideal holiday, booking flights, accommodation and ensuring all went ok on their holiday together, she had not seen him for 10 months, so was eager to see him, sure things could have changed between them, however she had no reason to doubt his loyalty, so she thought.....

Usual story, distant relationship, the high expectations of taking a holiday together this coupled with summer, longing to visit the place she loved and felt safe, surely this was a recipe for fun and adventure.

It was not meant to be, instead he had met somebody else and didn't tell her before flying out, surely the holiday wouldn't continue, it did. He was now the intruder in her holiday, after all she decided to come to Australia first, her second home. Why did she have him 'stick around' and share the sights, exotic locations and friends with him?

I am still pondering that one, perhaps we long to feel part of someones' life even if it is not meant to be, hoping something would change.

Perhaps we cannot admit it that we can go on alone on the holiday as they were part of the picture for so long,

Or maybe you think you can shoulder on, to realise half way through that you feel, unwanted, unloved and not desired, confidence scattered and alone.

When you have such an intruder you need to FEEL STRONG and be empowered, feel that you deserve better and let them know this is not acceptable, and walk away. They choose to find someone else, so they really don't want you the same way you want them, so be BRAVE and carry on solo on your holiday, you do not need them as a constant reminder, they trampled on your heart, so protect yourself.

You are WORTH so MUCH MORE, believe this and you will attract the right type of people.