Happiness

I got this quote today

"Happiness is not an accident. Nor is it something you wish for. Happiness is something you design." Jim Rohn

So if that is the case, wishing for it will not bring it closer, you need to walk towards it and make it happen. People who are happy, have worked at it, consciously and they have certain values which orientate themselves to their collective happiness. Being passionate about doing certain things, re-evaluating their lives when they get to a crossroad, and designing the new path in an exciting and compelling way.

So everybody can have happiness, it is just some people perfer to have other 'stuff' rule their lives, blame, sadness, guilt, anger, anxiety, jealousy, resentment, and this feeds them in negative ways so happiness just doesn't come, it is not welcomed. If you are busy being depressed, what message do you send out? Not happy ones that is for sure.

If you are angry at your partner for something they did ages ago, this will not bring happiness far from it, you just keep it away until you resolve these issues. Same goes for blame, sadness, jealousy, resentment and other negative emotions, that detrack from where you really want to go.

Happiness is by design, you create it, with those around you, the environment and your feeling state, you are vibrating the good stuff which gives you more of it, so it just keeps on growing.

And the world becomes a happier place as a consequence.