I hear this often 'he made me feel this way' "I blame her for my situation", pointing the finger at other people for their emotional state. No one makes you feel any certain way, you choose to feel that way, you command your emotions nobody has control over that, unless you give them control, and the power to make you feel so.
If you react with emotion have a think about where this comes from ? You are responsible for your happiness, if you are not happy yourself how can you radiate happiness on the outside. If you have children they feel this energy you radiate even if you do not say anything, being in denial hiding away will not make you more confident and empowered.
Being responsible for your emotions is very liberating as you are your own energy source, giving this to someone else and them being your source will not make you happy in the long term.
You are only placing them on a pedestal and you are waiting for their move, so whatever they feel you feel, your happiness is tied to the external factors.
Does this really make you happy? seriously?
Make 2008 the year for CHANGE, your change your growth and your HAPPINESS,
cheers!
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