Comments on Personal Development Blog: Non-Negotiables

thanks anoymous, yes its important to be authentic...

2008-07-12T13:20:00.000+10:00

thanks anoymous, yes its important to be authentic, be your own self first, and not change pending who you want to be with. However saying this, we all need to clean up our own stuff first, as this too transfers to the next relationship and perhaps patterns form.

"Be the person you want to attract"?This is the op...

2008-07-11T18:34:00.000+10:00

"Be the person you want to attract"?

This is the opposite of congruent.

Yes, if someone is attracting people they dislike, then look to yourself to see what you are drawing towards you.

But don't base who you are on who you want to attract. That's very odd. Just work on being more who you "really" are.

That's all. Then, the mirrors change.

Good observation Dan, many things can be seen very...

2008-07-08T23:11:00.000+10:00

Good observation Dan, many things can be seen very simply. It all stems from self relationship. You get the learnings and move on.

We see this in many of our clients at Click A Life Coach and this simplistic approach facilitates many breakthroughs.

That's a really interesting post and a very simple...

2008-07-08T21:30:00.000+10:00

That's a really interesting post and a very simple description of a very serious point. I observe this pattern too in my own clients, that the things they want from another, they do not mirror in their own lives. If they manage to get together with someone who has these attributes or qualities, the cracks appear fairly quickly and the relationship tends to fade out.

Thanks, Dan.